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“Everything that’s left is yours.” A tear rolled down Anna’s cheek. I was not, however, very good at not having crushes on boys.I would make up elaborate daydreams of how this boy or that would ask my father’s permission to court me, and there were of course roses and romantic walks and eventually a ring.He even offers a scenario that has since been the nightmare of many an evangelical teen: It was finally here.Anna’s wedding day, the day she had dreamed about and planned for months.
“Anna, they don’t mean anything to me now…but I’ve given part of my heart to each of them.”“I thought your heart was mine,” she said.“It is, it is,” he pleaded. How many times have I given my heart away in short-term relationships? As for sexual thoughts, I was pretty good at sublimating them.I felt embarrassed by my body, and strove to hide it under loose fitting clothing. So good at it, in fact, that by the time I was actually in a relationship I had for all intents and purposes killed my own sexuality.I might have wondered if I were asexual if I had known what that was, but as I sought to open myself up I found over time that I was a sexual being after all.Harris’ teachings on lust caused very real problems in my marriage as well.I believed that every time my husband cheated on me every time he had sexual thoughts about another woman.