Tips for dating older men
By the time they're 27, they could be sleeping with a sexy Chewbacca for all they care. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.
I.e., he won't be one of those lamewads who clings to your friend group and sits around the house eating Cheez-Its and waiting for you to come over and watch Netflix with him.
She doesn’t necessarily expect you to do these things with her.
She hopes that you listen and that you are sensitive enough to pick up what matters to her and begin a conversation about it.
I know that this might be uncomfortable for most men, but that creates safety for a woman. It’s sensible—saving money and time by presenting an opportunity to reject each other in the course of 5 minutes. You don’t have to bungee jump in order to create impact, but it’s proven that some of the greatest attraction happens when you share a special experience.
She doesn’t know who you are and if she could trust you yet. You both take a risk: she risks her safety; you risk hearing “no”. Create it.8) A date doesn’t have to be expensive in order to be memorable. You’ll discover a lot about her just by observing what she’s drawn to.
When you choose a place to meet, think of what you like as well, and what would make you feel confident and happy. 9) If you want to win with her, help her feel good about herself. You might be surprised how easy it is to be happy when you say “this is enough”.
If you can help her feel good about herself, chances are she’d reciprocate. To do this—pay continuous attention to her, listen to what she has to say, and be fully present. Notice when you get caught in the nets of the addiction of fishing for a better fish.
She may conclude that you possess the most valuable skill for a successful relationship—the ability to listen. She will follow.6) Provide safety for her by revealing something about yourself. The myth that there are no men in their 40s and 50s who are available and interested in a woman my age, evaporated within minutes of being on this site. And yet, in the few hours that followed, over 500 men had expressed their desire to meet me. The next shock was that men are interested in women over 40.So if she’s written: “I love yoga”, ask her about that!She’d be impressed that you went beyond looking at her pictures and actually took the time to read what she says.