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But I didn't think too much about how it would be as a black woman, besides the issue of people touching my hair and how I was going to respond. Young people are open to black people, maybe it's not quite the same with the older people. People smelling my hands and touching my skin wondering why it's so soft. I wanted to learn more about the people and the culture. A lot of my teachers encouraged us to visit South Korea.
I think I remember telling some of my friends that I'm no stranger to any of these things—for instance, when I had holiday jobs during school holidays I had a few white customers who were surprised at my mastery of English. Do you see yourself living here and settling long-term? What were some of the things you thought you would encounter in Korea?
Perhaps I am guilty of condoning inappropriate behaviour.
I was out with my friends (who are foreign) in Seoul once. This is why I have decided to stop dating Korean men. Since arriving in Korea I just wanted to marry a Korean. I'm sorry but in a country with the fastest internet speed; with no censorship laws like China for example and where young people have access to and are obsessed with American and Hip Hop culture.
My friends went in the club, I went somewhere else quickly. It was the only thing on my mind, it felt right to come back. Living in Korea as a black woman, what is that like? More men are interested because we seem more exotic. It's nice to stand out in the Korean dating scene but it feels terrible to be fetishized. It's good mostly but I have experienced some difficulties with a few companies that won't hire you specifically because you are not a white female. But then realised and accepted that I don't qualify in their eyes. I find it really hard to believe that the issue is still ignorance.
I argue that there is no misunderstanding when it comes to being sexually inappropriate.
Universally we all know what is ok and what is not ok.