Steves dating tips
It tells him that what you have- your benefits- are special, and that you need time to get to know him and his ways to decide if he DESERVES them.The man who is willing to put in the time and meet the requirments is the one you want to stick around, because tthat guy is making a conscious decision that he, too, has no interest in playing games and will do what it takes to not only stay on the job, but also get promoted and be the proud beneficiary of your benefits.
A directive like that signals to a man that you are not a plaything-someone to be used and discarded.
The same philosophy can be applied to dating: if putting your requirements on the table means you risk him walking away, it's a risk you have to take.
Because that fear can trip you up every time; all too many of you let the guy get away with disrespecting you, putting in minimal effort and holding on to the commitment to you because you're afraid he's going to walk away and you'll be alone again. We recognize this and play on it, big time.” ― Steve Harvey, “I'm here to tell you, though, ladies that the term "gold digger" is one of the traps we men set to keep you off our money trail; we created that term for you so that we can have all our money and still get everything we want from you without you asking for or expecting this very basic, instincual responsibility that men all over the world are obligated to assume and embrace. KNOW THIS: It is your right to expect that a man will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exhange for your time.” ― Steve Harvey, “You're an investigator - can't nobody find stuff out like a woman.
Y'all put the police to shame, make the little investigative tricks they show on CSI and Law & Order: SVU look like counting lessons on Sesame Street.” ― Steve Harvey, “Women can go over it again and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right," "I wasn't good enough," "I didn't love him the way I should," "she came in here and outperformed me"-but the fact still remeinas that he didn't have any business cheating.
So women need to realease themselves from the blame of a cheating man's actions-just do that for yourselves.